I am trying to better my life, which will better hubby's life as well as the 2 little ladies who depend on me. I am doing this through exercise, nutrition and other things. One thing I learned from my nutritionist is that before you don't just need good healthy food, you need primary food and that consists of your home, relationships etc. It makes sense. You could eat healthy and exercise but if you are in an abusive relationship - you are not going to be healthy. You get my point.
No my relationship is not abusive, i have a supreme man and love him dearly, he is kind and wonderful and quite frankly it amazes me that i found him. My point is - I am unhappy with the state of my house. It is unorganized and that is one area that I am trying to take control of. However, I am embarrassed to say I needed help. I had to hire a pro organizer to help out. She worked on my kitchen first and it was amazing. It seriously has changed our life. We can actually see what food we have, I don't mind pulling out a pot or pan to cook b/c 5 other things are not falling when I do it. Today she is coming to work on our playroom/basement, and I think I just can not get over the fact that I have to pay someone to help me. I should be able to do this myself, but this is where I need to let go, ask for help, get the help and move forward and be happy about it.
When do you ask for help ? When have you paid for help that you knew you needed ? a trainer, nutritionist ? organizer ?